Mysterious Monday--the Power of the Love Stone

I’m sure this week’s theme for Mysterious Monday is not so much a mystery—as Valentine’s Day is closing in on us this week, all our thoughts turn toward our current relationship status. Whether you have a sweetie, are looking for a sweetie, just plain over the whole sweetie thing, or whatever, one thing we all have in common is our need for love. Whether that love comes in the form of romantic love or platonic love, you can quite literally hold the means to get that love in the palm of your hand. Gemstone magic can be that means.

There is a wonderfully beautiful type of stone called rose quartz, aka pink quartz or love stone. Its pink color comes from “impurities” that bleed into the naturally white quartz. The one that I had for many years was tumbled so that it was smooth to the touch. It was cool when I placed it in my hands, warming with the warmth of my body. When life seemed too rough to believe, I would hold this stone in the palm of my hands and close my eyes; gradually, my breathing would slow and positive thoughts would fill my head.

Quartz is a very powerful conductor of energy; rose quartz therefore is a powerful conductor of love energy. It is used for finding love, maintaining love, and helping one to love and forgive oneself. This stone attracts all sorts of love—romantic love, love for children, love of self, friendship, etc. It eases anger and sadness, and can even help you to feel at peace with the world in general, alleviating the stress of all the negativity that bombards us every day. A word of caution—no magic can force a particular “target” to fall in love with you; love stones will attract the one who is right for you, not turn Bobby from his love for Michelle, for example. This would be a negative use of a positive emotion, and could have whiplash negative effects in the long run.

In healing, it is used for healing emotional hurts such as grief or guilt, as well as balancing the flow of blood to cleanse the body of impurities. It has a powerful association with the heart chakra so that it naturally helps to balance body, mind, and spirit. If you’re feeling stress, do as I mentioned above and hold your love stone in your hand. Close your eyes, then breathe in and out slowly a few times; breathe in love and purity in the form of white or yellow or pink light, breathe out negativity in the form of black and darkness. Love stones are not a “cure” however for proper medical care—they help to alleviate symptoms and lower your stress while increasing your blood flow, but for any physical or mental health issues, you should always consult your physician.

There are many ways to use the love stone—it comes in a variety of forms, as well. Tumbled stones are polished with no rough edges and are therefore more comfortable to hold or to use as jewelry, either as a pendant on a necklace or in the form of a bracelet, earrings or a ring. You can keep these stones in your purse or your pocket, in the cup holder of your car or hanging from the rear-view mirror. Keep one in your desk at work if you work an office job or in your locker at school if you’re in school—should you be reading my blog if you’re still in high school? Untumbled love stones are just as powerful but would most often be found in a bowl or just set out somewhere in your home. Many people place them in their bedrooms or in the “heart” of their homes (this can be the physical center or the social center, such as the living room or the kitchen or the dining room). Love stones also come in towers, but they are not as common as the smaller variety and are definitely more expensive. Wherever you keep your stone, keep one close; think of it and hold it daily and see if you see any improvement in your stress levels or love life or both.

Mysterious Monday: Tree Magic, Apple tree style

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In magic, trees play an integral part—their wood, their fruit, leaves, and/or blossoms are all put to various uses. Most of us with any exposure to magic, even through Harry Potter, know of the importance of trees and have heard of wands made from ash or oak. But did you know that other trees are associated with magic, as well?

As I was looking through the list of magical trees, one in particular caught my attention. I grew up in New Hampshire, where apple trees were nearly as common as grass. Somewhere in the back of my mind, I remember hearing that apples were the witch’s fruit—not only were they associated with evil for supposedly being the lure that Eve used on Adam to tempt him to naughtiness (yeah, right—like her being naked had nothing to do with it!), but also, if you cut an apple in half crosswise instead of top to bottom, the seeds are exposed in a star-like formation. It’s no wonder that the apple tree is associated with evil in the Christian theology, particularly when one examines how important it was to the ancient pagans. For example, apples are very important in the feasts of Samhain and Mabon, two of the harvest festivals.

Samhain is one of the four major feasts (or Greater Sabbats), a celebration of our dead ancestors, associated today with Halloween. Apples were often seen as the proper food to serve the spirits of the deceased, and were buried in the ground to feed the dead. Mabon is the time of the autumnal equinox, a time that is neither high summer nor full autumn, thus making it a magical time. Mabon is celebrated between the 21^st and 24^th of September; the apple tree is associated with the tenth month of the Celtic Tree Calendar, which begins on the 2^nd of September and ends on the 29^th.

But apples are not just all about pagans—apples are good for your health; I’m sure we have all heard that an apple a day keeps the doctor away. Apples can be ingested in many forms—raw, baked, fried, grilled, as a juice or made into a sauce or baked into something else. They are good to cure a wide range of ills, from constipation to mild depression, but as we all know, it’s the skin of the apple that contains most of the nutrients. Remember, though, I’m not a doctor, so any “cures” you see on my blog are either things that I have heard or read or experienced myself; they might not work for you. On a cool side note, eating an apple was said to allow one to transport to the “other realm”, usually the land of the fae. This could just be because, like many fruits that could be made into an alcoholic drink, apples were seen to be a fruit of the gods. Just something to think about the next time you're drinking hard cider.

The apple tree is symbolic of love, trust, and health, and its stones are the emerald and the rose quartz. Emerald is a stone of health, while rose quartz is often called the “love stone”.  Emeralds promote calming, harmony & balance, and are said to bring truthfulness and love, as well as filling one with positive energy. Rose quartz is associated with love of all sorts, from platonic to romantic, and is said to have the ability to heal a broken heart, as well as promoting calmness and tranquility.

To have these two stones as the representatives of the apple tree, which is associated with travel to the otherworld, was just too much coincidence for me; for those who don’t know, my WIP, Quantum Kiss, is a love story where the hero and heroine are from parallel worlds. They are also both living in the northeastern United States, an area that has long been associated with apples and apple trees; who doesn’t love to go to apple harvest celebrations in that area? I no longer live in the northeast, but I think I may go out tomorrow and get myself a bunch of apples—see if they help me with my weight loss and keep me calm for a meeting with my big "boss" tomorrow (knock wood, the love life's doing all right).

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